Mon, 8 September 2014
In today’s episode, my husband Bruce & I share the story of our last 3 years. A period of time where his workload was heavy, children were all-consuming and personal time was almost non-existent.
Can you relate?
If your husband has (or you have) a demanding career, then hopefully our story will remind you you are not alone. Maybe hearing how we coped will give you ideas to keep your head above water. (And there are a few general marriage tips we throw in as a bonus).
What we talk about:
(Amazon Affliliate Links below)
Have you and your spouse ever been through a challenging season? What helped you “weather” the storm?
Sun, 27 July 2014
Mon, 14 April 2014
I don’t know about you, but how I rate myself in the “mom department” varies greatly day by day, minute by minute. A wave of feeling pretty awesome can be quickly followed by feelings of failure. When I’m at a low point, it is nice to call a mom with older children and get encouragement, perspective and wisdom.
Because sometimes my feelings are based on a true problem and I need a little guidance on how to approach my boys differently.
Sometimes my feelings are based on lies and I need a little truth-telling to get my eyes refocused.
For today’s podcast I’ve invited Leslie Johnson (SurseeGal.com) back for a group pep talk. Leslie is the lovely mom to four grown boys. She speaks life and truth. I’m so thankful for her consistent investment in my mothering.
I wanted y’all to listen in on one of our typical conversations. Get a taste of what a phone call would sound like (except in this case we know you are listening and may even refer to you as “listeners”…besides that). And just like a real phone call with Leslie, I’m all over the board asking a variety of questions.
Today we cover three main topics (with the occasional rabbit trail…):
Leslie’s suggested read-aloud books *:
*If reading via email, click to blog post to get book links (amazon affiliate).
**For those of you who struggle with anger/yelling and want to focus on getting it under control, the MOB Society just launched a new private FB group called “No More Angry MOB”. It’s a place for moms to gather and know they are not alone and for strategies to change habits, be encouraged, etc. Within the first 24 hours of launching, 1,000 moms had signed up. You are not alone. You can find me there!
Also, last week September McCarthy wrote a couple of great posts on the topic of anger. Find them here:
If you could talk to Leslie on the phone, what would you ask her?
(may even be used on a future podcast. . . wink wink).
Mon, 7 April 2014
God kinda rocks my world. In a good way.
Here’s where I get bossy . . . –> Do. not. miss. today’s podcast seriously.
To back up a second. . . I first met Julie in college. We weren’t besties, but at a small Christian school, ya kinda “know” everyone. Especially since we graduated the same year and had a common friend.
Fast forward to last November (2013) when I saw Julie’s face in my Instagram feed and I asked the question, “Did you go to Taylor University?” That simple comment was one stone in the path God took Julie, releasing her from the spiritual desert she found herself.
In this episode listen to:
Connect with Julie:
Check out Julie’s amazing Breathe Retreat (and register) –> Click Here
Check out Julie’s awesome Etsy shop (paper flowers) :: Julie Lynn Design –> Click Here
Check out the incredible Creative Discipleship Kits :: $20/each :: Ephesians Devotional (Identity in Christ), creative swag & instructions :: Follow Julie on social media for more details or Email her at firstname.lastname@example.org .
Questions to consider:
Have you ever been burnt out from ministry? Had a “desert” experience?
What activities bring you joy?
Have you considered using those gifts/talents/joys in a unique way to minister to others?
Please share your story of discovering joy through a ministry sweet spot in the comments below!
Mon, 31 March 2014
“I can almost hear your question. The . . . what idol? Love Idol? How can love be an idol? Love was God’s idea. We were created in God’s image, and God is love!
Paul wrote to the Corinthians: ‘These three remain: faith, hope and love. And the greatest of these is love.’ Yet we take God’s ‘greatest’ and contort it into an idol. We twist our desire for approval into a false god. . .
This book is for any of us who want to live content in God’s perfect love, freed up from the wearying demands of the Love Idol.”
–Jennifer Dukes Lee
Moving from an award-winning news reporter to farmer’s wife, Jennifer found her need for other’s approval followed her like a parasite.
She chronicles her journey of (continued) healing in her new book, “Love Idol: Letting go of your need for approval–and seeing yourself through God’s eyes”, which released last week (Get a copy here).
Can you relate to craving love so greatly it becomes the driving force to all your decisions and actions?
I definitely can. People pleasing consumes my thoughts, my time, and my energy. So, I’m forever grateful to Jennifer for writing this fabulous book and for taking the time to chat about it on this week’s GCM podcast.
On this podcast episode we discuss:
Connect with Jennifer Dukes Lee:
More God Centered Mom posts on the topic of seeking people’s approval:
–“When I want to please people” (guest post at DoNotDepart.com)
Mon, 24 March 2014
Today I have my first return guest to the God Centered Mom Podcast. . . Amanda White from OhAmanda.com (throwing virtual confetti).
One of the many (thousand) reasons I love Amanda is her commitment to help parents know it’s easy to impress God’s Word on their kids’ hearts.
Since we cherished & raved about her “Truth in the Tinsel” Christmas curriculum, y’all better hold on to your horses and get excited because she has just released a new Easter Family guide, “Sense of the Resurrection: an Easter Experience for Families” (click here to get your copy) *affiliate link.
“What I want is a simmering in your heart and in your family meditating on Christ’s story”-Amanda
In this podcast, learn:
-the story behind the name
-the reasoning behind the 12 lessons
-how many activities to do each week
-how the curriculum is organized
-tips for how to personally prepare before teaching your children
Amanda shares why she waited a year to release this program, her current hesitations and her desires.
“I want to lead your kids to the Lord with you.” -Amanda
Since Amanda and I are such. big. fans of this Christ-centered approach to Easter baskets (in my version there is a superhero cape involved. . .click here to learn more).
We decided to join together and giveaway some fabulous products for your Easter basket this year. Items that go deeper than a cadbury egg ever could (although throwing one of those in the basket wouldn’t hurt. . . ahem).
One super-duper-blessed winner will receive ALL of the following products (see entry form at the end of this post…contest ends March 31, 2014) Even if you don’t win, now you have lots of ideas of things to put in your kiddos unEaster baskets:
Scripture Stickies ::: Exactly what it sounds like–stickable Scripture verses. Kinda like a fun and meaningful post-it note. Scripture Stickies is giving away the Cross Scriptures and Jesus is Risen. PLUS 10% off + free shipping with code UNEASTER for everyone!
God Gave Us Easter by Lisa Tawn Bergren ::: a sweet picture book for kids
Seeds Family Worship ::: Get the whole set, all 7 albums of this modern, awesome-for-the-whole family CDs.
You Can Draw Bible Stories by Sandy Silverthorne ::: A fun book for your little artists. (my boys LOVE to use this book to draw pictures when they attend “big church” with us).
Muncle Fred Art ::: $30 bouquet from this beautiful felt florist
What are your family Easter traditions?
For more “Easter” focused posts…click on this God-centered mom resource page.
Sun, 9 March 2014
Direct download: Hope_for_the_Struggling_Mom-_with_September_McCarthy_Ep._15.m4a
Category:motherhood -- posted at: 8:49am CDT
Sun, 2 March 2014
Sun, 16 February 2014
Heather interviews Rachel Anne Ridge.
Direct download: Parenting_Joy_GCM_ep_13_with_Rachel_Anne_Ridge.m4a
Category:motherhood -- posted at: 10:48pm CDT
Sun, 9 February 2014
Heather interviews NYTimes Best Selling Author, Melanie Shankle. They discuss Melanie's new book, "The Antelope in the Living Room". Melanie tells the story of one of her humbling marriage moments. At the end of the podcast, Melanie shares how she stays God-centered and how she chooses what to read from the Bible.
Direct download: The_Antelope_in_the_Living_Room_Episode_12_Melanie_Shankle.m4a
Category:marriage -- posted at: 10:29pm CDT
Sun, 2 February 2014
Heather interviews her mentor's mentor, Nancy William. A grandma to 10 and great-grandma to 4, Nancy provides wisdom and great perspective. She also shares a family gratitude tradition dating back 40 years. Also discussed: mom guilt, best parenting resource, praying with your kids, and husbands who work a lot.
Direct download: The_BEST_Ever_Life_GCM_Episode_11_with_Nancy_Williams.m4a
Category:motherhood -- posted at: 9:17pm CDT
Sat, 25 January 2014
Heather interviews Crystal Stine, mother to two-year old Maddie. Crystal shares her story of reluctantly walking into motherhood. The humbling process of experiencing a miscarriage. The joy of having her daughter. She also gives ideas for ways she makes time to spend in God's word throughout a busy day of juggling a full-time (outside the home) job and being a mom.
Direct download: First_Time_God-Centered_Mom_Episode_10_with_Crystal_Stine.m4a
Category:motherhood -- posted at: 3:58pm CDT
Sat, 18 January 2014
Heather interviews her mom, Cathy Price. They discuss the what, how, who, and why of discipleship. If you've ever been curious about what it means to be a discple or to disciple others, this episode is for you.
Sun, 12 January 2014
Heather interviews a long time friend, Rebekah Greer. In this episode Rebekah shares her story of marriage at a young age, her husband's infidelity, multiple attempts at reconciliation and their eventual divorce. She also vulnerably shares the challenges of being a single mom with 5 kids and how the church supported her through that time. Make sure you listen to the whole episode to hear how without any plan to find another husband, the Lord graciously provided a wonderful man whom she married several years ago. Rebekah wonderfully communicates the hope in connecting with God over any other relationship and the beauty of redeeming love.